Help! I Love S*x Very Much, But My Boyfriend is Disappointing in Bed

 

 

I’ve been in a very loving and committed relationship with my boyfriend for the past 9 months. I love him very very much and I know he loves me, but, our s*x life isn’t all that phenomenal.

 

The very first time we both lost our virginity to each other, it was completely awful. We both really wanted to and were ready to do it, but then when we did, it hurt for me and he finished seriously within a minute. I didn’t even get a chance to get fully stretched out or comfortable. Even worse, I’m embarrassed to say I cried my eyes out afterwords because I was so disappointed.

 

Every time after that it wasn’t terrible, it was just too short. I enjoy it s*x so much while it lasts, but I always feel let down when he finishes after 5 minutes. We’ve tried switching a bunch of positions to make it last longer, but it just doesn’t seem to work.

 

It’s frustrating because I have to listen to all of my friends talk about how long it lasts for them. One of my girlfriends even said she gets bored sometimes during s*x because her boyfriend just seems to last forever. That blows my mind because my experiences are always of me disappointed by how short it is.

 

I know that he feels bad about it too; he tells me that he feels like he lets me down every time we do it. I just always tell him it’s ok, we can practice more, but it’s seriously starting to make me really sad. S*x is supposed to be a beautiful and enjoyable thing between two people, but for us, it’s like he’s the only one benefiting from it.

 

Help me, please.