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This is Why Men Lose Erection When Using Condom During S*x

Posted by Thandiubani on Mon 20th Feb, 2017 - tori.ng

A leading sexpert has revealed the problem why most men lose their erection while using condom during s*x which brings about friction in their s*x lives.

*Photo used for illustrative purpose*
 
According to The Mix, there are many reasons why the sight of a rubber can have your hard-on wilting like a damp dandelion. Firstly, the nature of putting on a condom isn’t high up there on the erotic scale. The kissing and foreplay halt, you have to rummage around in a drawer, faff about with the packet, worry if it’s on inside-out …Is it really surprising your p*nis has lost interest by now?
 
Plus, yes we know, sex doesn’t always feel as good with a condom on. It can decrease sensitivity, making it harder for your hard-on to stay… well… hard. All of this is commonplace. But the issue becomes a problem when, psychologically, you start linking your erection deflation to condoms and get yourself into a massive head-mess about it.
 
Dr Vanhegen from Brook says: “If something goes wrong sexually, some men can just laugh it off. Whereas with other men it can go quite deep and this is where the problem starts. They start thinking ‘last time I used a condom I lost my erection – what if it happens again?’, and quickly just the thought of a condom can make an erection fade away. It’s all about confidence, and trying to break this vicious thought cycle.”
 
How to Help Yourself
Loads. You are not destined for a life of dick-flop whenever you hear the word Durex. Treat yourself to a posh wank (masturbation with a condom) and practice putting a condom on alone without the pressurising eyes of your partner on flop-watch. If you do have a partner present, stop separating the condom application time from the sexy time and make it part of foreplay.
 
Ask them to stimulate you with their hands or mouth while the troublesome foil packet is being unwrapped. Or you might find it sexy if they put the condom on for you. The most important thing is to COMMUNICATE about it. Yes, I know you would rather stick six-foot needles into your eyes than have a frank conversation after your floppy cock, but it will help. We promise. And your other half will feel better about it too.
 
Dr Vanhegan says: “The trick is to make it fun so the condom isn’t seen as this dreaded thing. Try not to just stop what you’re doing, get the condom out, and try and stick it on – that’s quite cold and clinical. Talk to your partner so you can both work at maintaining your erection and condoms become part of the lovemaking process.”
 
Don’t panic. This is the time where you ask for help, rather than ignoring the problem and hoping it goes away. Or worse – avoiding sexually-satisfying scenarios because you’re scared your penis won’t perform.
 
Dr Vanhegan says: “If you’re avoiding sex it’s definitely time to see a professional who understands. It might be that you need a one-off prescription of medication just to ensure you get a good erection, get that condom on and have a successful time. It usually only takes one good experience to get your confidence back and break the cycle. But always get a prescription rather than buying the medicine yourself off the internet.”


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