Posted by Amarachi on Mon 18th Sep, 2023 - tori.ng
She said one of the reasons she 'friend-zoned' him was because she had not heard from God at that time.
Adesua and Banky W
Popular Nigerian actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington has disclosed that she put her husband and singer, Bankole Wellington, aka Banky W, in the friend zone for over a year before accepting his marriage proposal.
The thespian spoke during service at the Waterbrooks Church, Lagos, on Sunday.
She said one of the reasons she “friend-zoned” him was because she had not heard from God at that time.
She said, “I would like to say that friendship plays a very big role in laying the foundation of your relationship. I friend-zoned my husband for a year and half [laughs].
“I friend-zoned him for two reasons. One, I wasn’t sure that I have heard from God about whether this person was actually my person. Actually, three reasons. Second, marrying Banky W [laughs]. I was like, ‘my life on my own is chaotic enough, I would now marry Banky? No, no, no.’
“And then thirdly, just trying to at least have a friendship. And I honestly believe that the friendship we laid over a year and half has played a very big role in how our relationship is today. Banky W is my guy. I mean if you take away romance and s3x and everything that makes a marriage, he would still be my guy. Banky is my best friend.”
Banky W inferred: “No, leave s3x. Don’t take it away [laughs].”