A woman has cried out for help after finding out about a horrific thing her boyfriend had done to her behind her back.
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The woman shared a touching story of how her man took n*de photos of her when she didn't even know about it.
Below is what she wrote about it:
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Please help me. I am in deep sh*t right now.
I was chatting with my ex over the weekend and I found out that he took n*de photos of me when we were dating 4 years ago way back in UNIBEN without my knowledge and he kept them even after we both graduated and had moved on though we chat from time to time.
We were just gisting and he asked me to send him n*de, that he misses me and want to know what my boobs look like now. I was shocked. I was like, are you alright? how dare you ask for such rubbish and that was when he told me not to worry that I am safe that he even had some n*des of me all these while but that he didn't expose them even when I hurt him by breaking up with him. That that was how much he loved me. That he knew i would leave him someday so he wanted to have something to remember me by.
To say that I was shocked that he kept the photos all this while would be an understatement. I told him that he was bluffing about still having the photos so I asked him to show me one and he sent me an old pix of me awkwardly n*de and laughing claiming to have many videos and pix. Honestly, its been so long and he must have been using his laptop webcam on me all that while and I didn't know.
I knew he was crazy and shit but I never knew he was that sick and obsessed to have taken and kept these images. I begged and begged him to delete them but he said no and promised that since the last 4 years that he has kept them safe and that he loves me too much to ever hurt me. That even if he marries tomorrow that he will still keep the photos because, according to him, they were not just photos but sweet memories of when he was really happy.
Since yesterday afternoon, I have lost my happiness, I have always been bashing people sending n*des to boyfriends without knowing that my own n*de library is somewhere in unknown quantity.
I have called him over 100times between yesterday and now begging him to delete the photos but he is telling me that he still loves me and can't delete the photos. He knows I am engaged and will soon settle down so I honestly cannot afford this right now. Please is there any law against holding someones n*des against their will?
I don't know if I can get him arrested and I don't know if it will be safer to tell my fiance before he find out on his own. Its not like he is blackmailing me but the thought of me n*de in someone's laptop is killing me.
I have been moody and can't even concentrate at the office.
Please can you advise me on a way out of this mess?