A woman tried to coerce her husband into agreeing with her by making him believe she was divorcing him but what she got was not at all what she expected.
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I and my hubby were living together after my wedding, but he got another job and had to live for a year in another state, but now we are living together because he has been transferred back. Our marriage is 5 years old now with a child.
While my husband was working outside our state, I was pregnant and the doctor's instructions to me was never to ever make love in that early pregnancy especially around the time of my cycle, because I have had miscarriages and my body doesnt want stress of any kind wenever I'm pregnant.
My husband instead of supporting me, started cheating on me with so many countless number of ladies on Facebook and whatsapp the moment we started livin apart n during my pregancy. Infact my husband always got these women's number through Facebook and chatted with them 24/7 on whatsapp even when he came visiting and while he was with me on bed.
I began suspecting my husband because as a woman I feel horny at times and will want a man's touch. I always tell my hubby wenever I feel this way, but he will tell me he doesn't feel so because his mind doesn't go there since he's woking according to doctor's instructions.
I told him that it was only the early pregnancy and the time of my period but he refused. I began suspecting my hubby and I decided to make investigation on the issue. I found out my husband tells most women he chats with on social media that he's not married and even goes to see these ladies' parents pretending to marry them. He ask the women for money and never pays back. Sometimes, he sends them picture of his p*nis highly erect telling them he needs sex.
All this continued even after I put gave birth and up till now. I made my husband know I was aware of him cheating on me in all the above listed ways and I began calling and sending pictures of me and my hubby married with our kids to the ladies. This made them believe me and also apologised saying my husband never told them that.
My husband apologised to me and pretended to have changed, but he's still on his ill act up till today. We have had lots of misunderstanding about this which led me into pretending filing for divorce and my hubby told me whenever am ready I should let him know.
Now am confused because I love my hubby, but don't know if he even loves me, if he can give me such response about the divorce thing.
What do I do?