Posted by Samuel on Thu 04th Sep, 2025 - tori.ng
Speaking on the Afropolitan podcast, Femi recalled the heavy pressure people placed on him from childhood.
The Minister of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Nyesom Wike, has admitted that he is losing sleep over the need to deliver projects in the capital city and surrounding satellite towns.
Speaking on the Afropolitan podcast, Femi recalled the heavy pressure people placed on him from childhood.
“In school, at the bus stop, everywhere — people would say, ‘Are you not going to be like your father? Won’t you play music?’ The pressure was too much. You must be like your father.”
But Femi explained that he came to a turning point when he realized he could never be anyone else — not Charlie Parker, not John Coltrane, and not even Fela.
“If God wanted me to be Fela, I would have been Fela. I had to be Femi Kuti.”
He shared how he once lived with his father, even dressing like him, but eventually decided to break away and form his own band. That decision came with backlash.
“His fan base descended on me. They hated me. The press hated me. There was no internet then, so I couldn’t even defend myself.”
Femi also revealed how his grandmother gave him the tough love he needed when he was on the verge of losing focus: “She said, ‘What kind of lousy musician are you? You’ve been here for two weeks and you haven’t picked up your horn.’ I cried all night. But those words saved my life.”
Looking back, he said the struggle was necessary to truly stand as his own man: “I had to feel my pain. I had to strive for my own success. Being under my father’s roof, I couldn’t even see that dream.”