Posted by Samuel on Thu 25th Dec, 2025 - tori.ng
Though she met the man who would become her husband during this time, she remained strictly loyal and refused to speak to him because she was already committed.
A lady on TikTok has stirred conversations after she shared the story of how she met her husband while she was still in a relationship with her ex-boyfriend.
The narrator begins by explaining that she was in a serious relationship with her ex-boyfriend for nearly a year.
Though she met the man who would become her husband during this time, she remained strictly loyal and refused to speak to him because she was already committed.
However, things with her boyfriend began to sour. Two months into their relationship, his attitude shifted; he became distant and secretive. Despite her efforts to "fix" things and encourage him to be open, he remained closed off.
The narrator turned to prayer, and she claims that God began revealing the truth through her dreams. Initially, she struggled to believe these visions because her boyfriend was "highly spiritual," but the instincts persisted.
The breaking point came during a visit when he ordered a pizza, ate almost the entire thing himself, and gave her only one slice. When she confronted him about being stingy, it highlighted a deeper lack of care.
Eventually, her dreams were confirmed: she confronted him about a Senior High School (SHS) girl he claimed to be "helping" who was actually pregnant with his child. His defensive reaction—asking how she knew and accusing his friends of telling her—confirmed the betrayal.
Despite the pregnancy, the narrator initially tried to give him another chance, even planning for the unborn child. She requested to meet the "baby mama" so they could get to know one another. However, when they finally met, the boyfriend introduced the narrator as his sister. This final act of cowardice and deception was the end; she laughed at the absurdity of the situation and walked away for good.
On her way home from that final encounter, she reached out to the man she had met previously. They shared a playful text exchange where he jokingly pretended not to remember her. After she sent him two photos, his enthusiastic response made her realize she had finally found her "peace."