Why I Cut Ties With Three Close Friends - Nigerian Singer, Ayra Starr’s Mum Opens Up (Video)

Nene Aderigbigbe, the mother of singer Ayra Starr, has disclosed that she has permanently ended three close friendships.

In a New Year’s reflection shared on TikTok, Nene revisited past choices, questioning if she had overreacted.

The first friendship, according to her, ended after a deep breach of trust. She revealed that the lady relayed a private conversation between them to her husband.

“So I was reflecting on life, you know, it is a new year, and you want to reflect and see what you can correct. I now remember that a few years ago, I cut off from a few of my friends. I do not know if I overreacted, and do you know why I did it?” she said.

“Three of them, we are friends, we talk together about women’s things. The next day, one of them was now telling me that the thing we had discussed, I told my husband. I was like why but she was like I told my husband and he said it’s okay. She cut the phone, since that day till now, I have not picked up her call.

“Because why would you go and tell your husband what me and you were talking about? Do I know your husband? Is it not you I met, and we became friends? I do not want those kinds of friends. And if she is watching this video, that is why I do not talk to you again.”

Nene revealed that the second friendship dissolved over what she described as inappropriate and unwanted contact from the friend’s husband.

According to her, the third break was due to emotional exhaustion. Aderigbigbe described a friend who, despite being married for over two decades, constantly called to complain about her husband.

“The second person, I am your friend, why will your husband be telling me I am in America. Mummy Oyinkan, I just arrived in London. Why are you telling me you are in America? Did I send you there? I am your wife’s friend, I do not want to be your friend,” she added.

“Do not text me, I am not comfortable with it, not everybody is comfortable with something like that. I just do not like it. The third person, the reason I cut her off is that you have been married for 20 years, but she would still be calling me to report her husband to me.

“Do you want me to go and beat him where he is? Marriage that you have endured for years, so what do you want me to say? Why do you want to drain me mentally?”

Aderigbigbe revealed that to this day, none of the three former friends know why she cut them off.

“So that is why I cut those friends off, and till today, they do not even know why,” she added.