Posted by Samuel on Sun 25th Jan, 2026 - tori.ng
She explained that because of this, many do not truly know what they like, what they can tolerate, or the kind of traits they want in a partner.
Popular Nigerian actress, Teniola Aladese has spoken about marriage, noting that many women enter it too quickly without taking the time to truly understand themselves.
According to her, a lot of women move straight from their family house into marriage without ever experiencing life on their own.
She explained that because of this, many do not truly know what they like, what they can tolerate, or the kind of traits they want in a partner.
Teniola noted that this lack of self-awareness often leads to shock when women finally settle into marriage and begin to experience habits and mannerisms they were not prepared for.
She added that living alone helps a woman discover herself, her boundaries, and the things she will or will not accept, stressing that this self-knowledge can prevent the common “this is not what I signed up for” situation many face after marriage.
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