Posted by Samuel on Wed 04th Mar, 2026 - tori.ng
The mother of four faced criticism from followers who suggested she drop her husband’s surname if she no longer wanted to be called “Mrs.”
Desola Afod, wife of Yoruba Nollywood actor Kunle Afod, has responded to online critics who have been questioning her identity and their marriage.
The mother of four faced criticism from followers who suggested she drop her husband’s surname if she no longer wanted to be called “Mrs.”
One critic claimed her fame was entirely linked to her husband and implied she had no recognition without the Afod name.
In response, Desola warned critics not to invade her private messages, saying she would respond firmly if her boundaries were crossed.
She clarified that she does not interfere negatively in others’ lives but would not tolerate audacity or disrespect directed at her.
When another critic accused her of exposing his profile for public mockery, Desola again addressed the matter, stating that while people are free to share opinions on blogs, intruding into her personal space is unacceptable.
She made it clear that she will not be silenced or bullied and emphasized her commitment to protecting her loved ones.
She wrote: “Don’t come to my DM. I will respond with everything. Ko ni dafun yin pelu audacity te ni. E ni jere laye. Iku maa pa yin. Oloshi eeda. I will swear for you. Your children and your family. Adabi. If I have interfered negatively in anyone’s matter. If not, the wrath of God will befall you and the works of your hand.
“I am Ode. Don’t come for me. Aje, I go swear for you, your children, and your family. Olorun. I no dey block. I am everything they said about me, so? Abuse me on the blogs; it is okay. That audacity to come to my private space. I won’t take it! You can never bully me to death. Have got loved ones, I am living for. Silence isn’t golden anymore.”