A man is asking for help after he made the mistake of sleeping with the girlfriend's mother, now she won't let him be in peace.
A man has written to
Deidre about his predicament as he might fall prey to her girlfriend's mom trap.
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I had a drunken one-night stand with my girlfriend’s mother, but I love my girlfriend and work at the same company as her dad.
Now her mother is threatening all sorts unless I meet up with her again and repeat the experience. I am desperate.
I am 23 and have been with my girlfriend for two years. She is also 23.
I love her more than life itself and would never do anything to hurt her.
On that occasion, though, I was drunk. We were at our firm’s 50th anniversary do.
Her mother, who must be at least 45, was very friendly and suggested we get some fresh air in the garden of the hotel where the event was being held.
I agreed. She brought a bottle of wine for each of us and we took swigs as we walked. There was a summerhouse at the far end. I thought we were going in there to sit down and chat but she started to take her clothes off.
I stupidly responded by doing the same thing. The next minute, we were having steamy sex. She was all over me.
I thought it was a one-off and somehow, we managed to get back to the hotel without anyone suspecting anything.
I woke up with a massive headache the next morning and decided to put the whole thing out of my mind and watch what I drink in future.
Then I got a phone call. It was the mother inviting me to meet her at a hotel.
Her husband was playing golf with some clients and my girlfriend was out shopping with friends, she said.
I told her I could not make it as I was busy but she said I had better make it or else everyone would know what we had done.
I don’t want to be unfaithful. I love my girlfriend and would not hurt her for the world.
I have no idea what to do now.