A woman has begged for advice from relationship expert, Deidre on how to tackle an issue that has been bothering her s*x life.
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I’m having s*x with an older man and he makes me feel very special. But my friend is worried for me because he insists on it being unprotected s*x.
My parents are very strict and they don’t agree with s*x before marriage. They are practising Christians and they brainwash my little brother into being such a goody-goody it makes me sick.
I’m a 16-year-old girl and doing my GCSEs soon. My parents think everything rides on getting good grades and getting into a good university but I’m not like that.
I love my friends, going out with them, trying make-up and I’d love to go out with a boy.
My friend and I started talking about s*x a year ago, saying we’d like to try it.
We signed up to a dating website for virgins aimed at guys who want to go with girls like us. We said we were 18.
I started chatting to this older guy who’s 31. He told me he was married but he had always liked younger girls. I arranged to meet him in town and he gave me a silver bracelet. He said I was beautiful.
I arranged to meet him the following week after school at his house. He gave me a glass of wine and said it would help to relax me. I didn’t really like the taste.
He kissed me and it felt nice and then he asked me if I’d like to go upstairs.
We had sex and I’ve been seeing him twice a week after school since then.
His wife gets home from work later in the evening and he says he likes to have s*x with me in my school uniform.
I feel bad about him cheating on his wife but I don’t know her and I do enjoy the s*x.
My friend changed her mind and hasn’t met up with anyone. She says she’s worried I’ll get pregnant but he says he’s had the snip so it can’t happen.