A woman has begged relationship expert, Deidre for help on how to tackle a dilemma after getting incredible s*x from a man who is working for her.
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I have been having some wonderful s*x with a guy who came to do some work in my flat.
He’s made it clear he won’t leave his wife but he’s so perfect for me, I can’t help but dream. I’m 25 and I have a good job in retail management. I have my own flat in a smart part of town.
Really, life should feel pretty good but I just don’t want to be on my own. My flat is tiny and I needed more storage space. My friend recommended this guy who could make built-in cupboards and shelves and make every inch count.
She promised he would do a good job and she was right.
I was really impressed with his work and doubly impressed with his super-fit body and lovely warm smile. He’s 28 and asked about where I was working and what kind of music I liked. He was friendly and easy to talk to and I felt myself falling for him.
Later, he sent me a text to say when he’d be back round to finish the job. I sent him a jokey reply and he sent me a flirty text back. He is so on my wavelength, it’s hard to accept that he’s married with kids.
The next time he came to my flat I was sure we were going to have fun. He said he had something to show me — I guessed what it was. We had sex in my bed, the best of my life.
That happened again a few times and it was brilliant. He’s finished the work that I’d asked him to do but I’ve now thought of more work I want done. We’re swapping hot texts every day and I can’t let him out of my life.
He’s told me his values are marriage and work. I do respect that but I feel that he really wants more from life. I don’t want to get hurt but I can’t let him go.