A man has revealed to relationship expert Deidre a s*x experience he had with a girl but don't know how to make things work out.
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My fiancée is beautiful but she wants to wait until after we are married to have s*x. She says it is not all that important and will not even talk about the sexy things I want to do. I am 24, she is 21 and we’re on opposite sides of the world as I was sent to work at my Australian office for six months.
The time difference means it is not easy to phone. We text a lot but she always falls asleep when I want to start sexting her.
I respect her choice to stay a virgin until we marry next year but I would love her to do something to keep me excited.
I recently moved into a new flat-share with another guy. He has a girlfriend who lives in the flat below us with her mate.
They are both 25. The girls spend a lot of time in our flat and I became very jealous when I saw my flatmate cosying up with his girlfriend.
The girls were with us last Saturday afternoon and we all had a few drinks. Then my mate and his girl disappeared into his bedroom. I was sitting next to the other girl and decided to try my luck.
I kissed her and she responded. We talked about sexy things we could do and I was really turned on.
We had s*x in my bed and then an even more amazing time in the shower afterwards. It was the first time I had done something so wild and it was better than I had ever imagined it could be.
She knows I am engaged and she now says that it was just an afternoon of madness and will not happen again. I really want it to but she totally refuses. I love my fiancée but I am at breaking point with frustration now.