A man has written relationship expert, Deidre as he cannot understand why his girlfriend prefers s*x toys to him.
My partner is just 23 but she has lost her s*x drive to the extent that I’m lucky if we have s*x once a month. I am 27.
She has s*x toys which she will use to pleasure herself several times a week. They are not a problem for me but I become almost jealous that I am being left out.
She will not let me see her n*ked below the waist and the room has to be dark and her face covered.
There was a time when we kissed and cuddled often. Now I have to ask for it and when I do, I am told “Later” or “I am too tired.”