One Night Stand: 4 Main Tips for Casual S*x

 

There are a lot of reasons why a person might want to have a casual s*x experience. Casual s*x can encompass things like one night stands, friends with benefits, or s*x with a friend. The point is, there is no commitment.

Yes, it is possible to have s*x with no commitments, if you know what you are doing. Just because everything is 'casual' does not mean there are no etiquette or rules involved.

Below are four ways to get the best out of a casual s'experience:

1. Be inquisitive

One of the great benefits of casual s*x is that it happens outside of the expectation constraints of a relationship. You aren't trying to set a standard and impress your partner. So, consider casual s*x as "practice" for when it really counts. Whereas you may be shy asking a significant other if a certain position or technique feels good, casual s*x gives you the opportunity to explore, experiment and learn. You get to try new things and receive instant feedback.

2. Focus on your desire

Ever wanted to try out something in the bedroom, but were too shy or embarrassed to ask your partner? Whatever your fantasy or curiosity desires, casual s*x opens the playbook, so that you don't have to feel self-conscious. Since it'll be a one-time partner, or someone who has little involvement in your life outside an evening or two, you can be totally open without fearing about word spreading.

3. Know the rules

Make sure that the two of you are on the same page in regards to the commitment of the relationship. You'll want to clear this up right away to avoid any hurt feelings down the line. There is nothing wrong with having s*x just to meet a sexual desire, but you need to make sure that his/her expectations are the same as yours. Don't develop a strong emotional attachment if you don't intend to make it last. You don't want a casual fling to eventually lead to complication.

4. Let go

Now's the time to go all out in the bedroom. If you want to relive hardcore movie scenes, or role-play, or pretend you're somewhere in space with a Russian cosmonaut, casual sex is the place.

 

Live your wildest fantasies without facing any repercussions. Be up-front and honest with your partner, so your wild side doesn't come as too much of a surprise. And most of all, remember that casual s*x is a two-way game. Don't be greedy in the bedroom. It's your job to make sure she's living her fantasy as well.