Been away from a familiar surrounding can prove to be the necessary jolt of electricity that your relationship needs.
One of the most thrills for anyone is to be catered to, to have things at your beck and call and it almost requires nothing without having to worry about anything. All you have to is to make a call, and anything you want is given to you.
It’s easy to understand why hotel s*x feels so good, you get to do nothing but call room service even better, you don’t have to make the bed when you’re done, it’s now someone else’s problem, not yours, as reported by Danielle de la Bastide.
While we all know this, scientists researched why it feels that good to put facts to what we all know. Amy Muise, a psychologist from York University in Toronto has said that vacations are healthy in a relationship, it promotes a new sort of freedom that can lead to some experimentation and remove usual inhibition in the bedroom.
Doing the same thing over and over again becomes boring quite easily. Being away from your traditional setting can help to see things in a new light especially when it comes to s*x.
You and your partner should leave the bed at times, and head for the table or the staircase and get creative. Amy asserts that self-expansion is critical to our overall health.
“Often it is about doing things outside the bedroom that enhance desire and closeness â€• which tends to lead to a greater likelihood of (and better) s*x,” she said.
Going somewhere new to experience entirely different sort of arrangement can help bring more interesting ideas to the bedroom, and this also pushes the idea for self-expansion. This is very beneficial for the couple.
Another major reason why s*x at the hotel is great is because you can look like an escape, your mind takes a trip away from the familiar to the unfamiliar. No normal life challenge staring you in the office like other days, like work challenges and things.
The vacation nature of it kicks in, and you don’t have to worry about the kids, you’re alone with the most important person in your life. What could go wrong?
Credits: Hot Pulse