S3xual Compatibility Is A Lie To Make Young People Fornicate Unendingly In Their Pursuit For Someone Who Will Outperform Their Last S3xual Partner - Solomon Buchi

Solomon Buchi

Popular Nigerian writer and life coach, Solomon Buchi, has given his opinion about s3xual compatibility before marriage.

According to him, s3xual compatibility is a “lie from the abyss told to make young people unendingly in their pursuit for someone who will outperform their last s3xual encounter.”

Buchi in a post shared on social media, opined that people should be looking for ‘’s3xual commitment' and not ‘s3xual compatibility’.

He opined that people seeking for s3xual compatibility end up sleeping with the whole town and then start looking for p*rn stars to build a godly marriage with.

According to him, s3xual compatibility is the devil's buzzword.

‘’S3xual compatibility is a lie from abyss to make young people fornicate unendingly in their pursuit for someone who’ll s3xually outperform their last s3xual partner. They end up sleeping with the whole town. What you need is s3xual commitment, and it only exists in marriage.

Commitment ensures fulfillment, hence, if you’re committed to someone, you’ll do anything within reason & sentiment to please them. Emotionally, this is the case; s3xually, it’s same. S3xual commitment in marriage is God’s design. S3xual compatibility is the devil’s buzzword.

Think of this: as a Christian, premarital s3x is a sin. You somehow fall into it, engage in it with multiple partners, and when it’s time to choose a life partner, you use what you learnt through SIN(fornication) for ascertaining who you’ll marry. This is not consistent. How do you seek godly marriage through sinful desires and acts? How do you measure a potential partner with the perversion you learnt from porn? Sex is important, but the s3xualization of marriage and even our partners is the spirit of lust at work.

S3xual compatibility says “I’m going to test you & if you’re not good enough, I’ll leave you”, while s3xual commitment says “I’m going to wait till marriage, and even if you’re not good enough at first, I’ll stay committed because we have forever to grow in pleasing ourselves.” ‘S3xual compatibility’ is impatient, and so is lust; therefore, s3xual compatibility is lust. S3xual commitment understands s3x as a duty as much as it is for pleasure. It gives room for growth and a safe space for vulnerable intimacy.

Stop looking for p*rn stars to build a godly marriage with. In fact, these defiant s3xual desires are a result of disobedience to God. If we all stayed s3xually pure; you won’t go into marriage wanting 50 styles in 10 minutes, or desiring 9 inches. These are works of the flesh.''

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