I Started Having S*x with My Boyfriend's Brother and Now He is Blackmailing Me - Lady Cries Out

Posted by Odinaka on Wed 16th Aug, 2017 - tori.ng

A young lady has written to a popular s*x and relationship therapist about her numerous s*xual intercourse with her boyfriend's brother who makes her feel special, but now blackmailing me her.

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Below is his story;

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I Love my boyfriend but I started having s*x with his brother because he makes me feel so special. Now he won’t let me stop.

I am 19, my boyfriend is 20 and his brother is 22. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year but we have known one another since school.

His brother wanted to date me before I got with my boyfriend but it never happened.

My boyfriend is football-mad and spends his every waking moment either playing or talking about the game. Weekends are always taken up with a match, home or away. I definitely feel second place to the game.

He has his moments and I know he loves me, but he doesn’t shower me with attention or buy unexpected gifts or even flowers. Our romance can feel run-of-the-mill.

His brother came round one Saturday afternoon a few months ago knowing I was alone and said he thought he’d cheer me up.

We watched a film, ate popcorn and had a lovely time together. Then my boyfriend rang to say he was going down the pub with his mates and would be home late.

I was not happy, but his brother put his arms around me and gave me a big kiss. I kissed him back, which turned into us having s*x on the settee.

It has carried on most Saturday afternoons and he’s started texting me during the week too.

He is always so sweet, asks if I am OK and is interested in my life, not just in talking about his own life. I am getting used to the attention and loving the way he makes me feel. It all got a bit heated last weekend as the brother wants me to dump my boyfriend and be with him. I refused, as our families would go mad at me.

He said he would tell everyone anyway if I wouldn’t and that we should be true to our feelings.

It’s put me off him but I feel too scared of what he might do to stop seeing him now.

Below is the reply she got from the relationship expert;

You have to stop playing games now before you cause even more hurt and get a terrible name for yourself.

Your boyfriend does sound neglectful but you should have talked to him about it, not started having secret sex with his brother, of all people.

Maybe part of the brother’s attraction towards you is to get one over on his sibling, but you have to call his bluff. Say you don’t like being blackmailed and are ending your affair.

I doubt he’ll want his family’s fury so he’ll probably decide to keep your secret once he realises he’s not going to convince you.

Then decide whether you really want to stay with your boyfriend.

If so, tell him he needs to make changes, but it sounds to me as though neither of these young men is the right one for you.