This young man has become skeptical about getting married to this lady whom he claims has slept with several people he knows. He posted his story on a popular online forum and many have been responding to it.
Read the full gist below:
"Guys! I need serious, real and honest contributions.. Thanks to all that will contribute.
I have a lady whom i am dating. I truly love and care about her but she has been with people that are in my circle and this disturbs me. She didn't used to be a straightforward and totally faithful person but i see that she is making efforts towards being completely honest and straightforward but still i don't have rest in my spirit about taking the decision to marry her.
I have observed she is soft with guys and is not firm, although i am aware it takes time for someone used to a particular pattern or lifestyle to adjust. I need help because breaking up with this lady will mean that i have to look for someone else to start the entire circle with again and who knows what if the new one also comes with even worse baggage.
My questions are these:
1. What do you advice i do?
2. Who has been in similar situation where you fell in love with a lady your friends and circle have been with then married her? What was the experience like including things to look out for..
3. How can be sure i wont regret the decision to go forward?"