A curvy woman has taken to social media to cry out about the struggles she faces due to her body shape.
She revealed that her encounters with men often lead to them expressing a desire for a purely physical relationship, leaving her feeling drained and disappointed.
She added that it’s not just about being beautiful or curvy, as she knows others who face similar experiences despite not fitting societal beauty standards.
In her words; “It’s draining me. These days anybody that is coming to me, I’m not even excited, I’m not even going to give out my number because it will just lead to them wanting to sleep with me. I’m not interested in that.
“It’s not even about being beautiful and s3xy, there are girls that are not beautiful or even curvy but they still face the same thing. You will just see a girl the only that will come to your mind is to slee the girl and if she refuses, you won’t talk to her again or if she was in your house when it happened, you’d kick her out.”
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@alozie_amara commented: “It’s not just you my sister, you’ll be telling a guy how emotionally down or sad you are and all he wants to do is shift pant Especially the when will you come and see me people & that gender ehn.”
@iamblackbharbie22 said: “Fr it gets to the point whereby you don’t even know who is genuine. Before we get to the third convo you’re already telling me about my body. Always making everything to be about the bedroom.”