I'm So Addicted to S*x That I Slept with My Mum's Cleaner - Man Cries Out for Help!

 

A young man has written to a popular s*x and relationship therapist, Deidre, who is also a columnist for The Sun UK newspaper about his addiction to sexual intercourse after he slept with his mum’s cleaning lady and need to clean up his act after having countless one-night stands.

 

Below is his story;

 

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Dear Deidre,

 

I am so addicted to s*x that I’ve even slept with my mum’s cleaning lady – it is a major problem.

 

I’m a 27-year-old guy and have had countless partners and one-night stands over the years. I didn’t even know the names of some women I have slept with.

 

Most have been in their early to mid-twenties but the other day I slept with my mum’s cleaner. She is 42 but really hot.

 

Mum had already gone to work when she arrived for the day but I had a day off. She was obviously upset about something so I asked her if she’d like a cup of tea.

 

It turned out that she’d had a massive row with her husband and he’d stormed out. I listened and tried to cheer her up. As she got up to start work I reached over and held her hand.

 

We stood up and I reached over to kiss her. She responded but then pulled away, saying it was wrong.

 

I kissed her again and this time she didn’t complain. I suggested we go up to my room and she followed me.

 

We had the most amazing s*x. She was a great lover but seemed embarrassed afterwards and got dressed in a hurry.

 

I know what I did was wrong. I am so ashamed of myself and assured her it wouldn’t happen again. I really do want to change as I hate the way I am behaving.

 

I have already had s*x with five women at work and I only started my job there nine months ago.

 

The last one was a sweet girl on my team who is always getting everyone coffees and things like that. Everyone loves her but I don’t want to have a relationship with her.

 

I know she is going to be upset so everyone will hate me for using her. I’m going to get such a terrible reputation. To me it feels like a drug problem.

 

I can’t seem to stop being so obsessed with s*x.

 

 

At least you have realised you have a problem and want to change. S*x gives you and all of us a chemical high.

 

It has probably become addictive in your case because you are suffering from some sort of underlying depression which the buzz wards off.

 

Maybe you grew up in a loveless home. Where is your dad, for example?

 

Take control of your life, too. Avoid situations which tend to lead to s*x and don’t hunt women for s*x.

 

Build friendships with them which will lead to real relationships. Hold back on sex until you are with someone who really cares for you and you them.

 

You are taking risks with your sexual health, so make sure you get to your local genito-urinary medicine (Gum) clinic for a check up.