A relationship adviser and blogger, Joro Olumofin has penned down a piece that markets single mothers.
Dear Eligible Bachelors, These are 10 reasons why you should consider getting married to a single mother.
It’s so sad that men in Africa, especially Nigeria overlook dating or getting married to single mothers. I once heard a man say “single mothers” are burdens & are only good for s*x. This is a Grand misconception.
Reasons why singles mothers may be better wives than a single lady:
(1) She is more mature : Having a child forces a woman to grow faster & assume more responsibilities. She tends to have her priorities straight.
(2) She knows what to do with money: A Lady with no child tends to spend her money on clubs,drinks,hair,skincare. A single mother is more financially prudent with money.
(3) She has a bigger vision: A lot of single ladies don’t know what they want in life yet, they haven’t figured out their Self Actualized state but single mothers have a plan that can fit 5 people.
(4) She knows what kind of man she wants: Because she already has a running family unit on her own. She knows the perfect fit for a husband. A lot of single ladies don’t know the type of man they want. All their sure of is that the man must have money.
(5) She tends to be more spiritual : Because of the stigma and challenges single mothers face. They are often more religious than single ladies. They will pray for you more.
(6) Her strength is tested : Mothers shoulder a lot from carrying pregnancy to raising a child. Dating a single mother guarantees an amazon at your side. She will support you and love you.
(7) She appreciates the value of a real man: Most likely she’s a single mother because things didn’t work out in her previous relationship. Due to her mistakes or Exs mistakes. She will appreciate a second chance at love.
(8) Sexual Skills: Single mothers know how to take care of a man sexually. They know all the G spots in men from the nipples, neck, perineum.
(9) She will challenge you: Dating a lady who already has a functioning family unit will give you as a man a new perspective in life. You will become more homely & invest more.
(10) Her children will melt your heart & motivate you to become a father early.