Help! My Husband's Best Friend Lied That I Tried to Sleep With Him - Worried Woman

 

 

The woman has told of the way she was stabbed in the back by someone she thought was a gentleman.

 

Read what she wrote below:

 

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Please help me solve this problem in my relationship.

 

I am in a relationship with a man of my dream. We have done introduction and my dowry has been paid.

 

However, few months down the line a close friend of my husband attempted to seduce me to bed because my hubby travelled to South Korea for a business that lasted for 6 weeks. 

 

We have been very close because he is my husband's right hand man and he sleeps in our house sometimes. He came around on march 13th with ice cream he bought for me but I smelled alcohol and cigar in his mouth

 

He started gripping my hand and telling me how he has been tripping and dying for me in silence.

 

I cautioned him and threatened to tell my husband before he stopped and started apologising and beging me not to tell Frank, my husband, because he was drunk and didn't mean it and that it wont happen again. He begged that I shouldnt break childhood friends

 

I thought about it and forgave him. Surprisingly my hubby raised that same incident immediatly he came back on Friday accusing me of treachery.

 

I never knew that his friend whom I forgave thought I'd  told my hubby on phone about him and his guilty conscience made him tell my hubby all manner of lies against me just to exonerate himself from that day when he started telling me that he like me alot and tried to kiss me and my hubby believed him because I didn't tell him since I've forgiven him.

 

I've realised that that was my biggest mistake ever.  

 

Now my relationship is in total shambles in such that he label me a treacherous woman. I can't forget that word in my life.

 

He asked me to leave his house on Saturday and I am typing from my elder sister's house 

 

Please help me out of this deep sea of humiliation and shame. I cannot lose him, I have committed a lot. I have swore to him yet he believes me not. I told him to take me anywhere to swear but he refused.

 

He asked me to leave my sister's house and go stay with my parents and tell them what I did before he takes his final decision,

 

What do I do now in this situation to save my marriage?