We Married As Virgins - Nigerian Couple Who Welcomed Triplets After 25 years of Marriage

 

A Nigerian man, Deacon Michael Nwankwo has revealed that he married his wife as a virgin.

 

He also revealed that he was also a virgin before marriage.

 

He made the revelation after he welcomed a set of triplets after 25 years of marriage with his wife, Victoria.

 

The duo also opened up about their struggles and triumph. 

 

The Lagos-based businessman and his wife after the dedication of the children at the Assemblies of God Church in Ojodu, on Sunday, February 20, 2022 after welcoming their children in September 2021. 

 

Speaking to Punch ,the couple revealed that they both got married as virgins, at age 26 and 24.

 

The couple also recalled how people mocked them over their situation, adding that Mrs Nwankwo had suffered several miscarriages before the birth of their daughters and son.

 

According to Nwankwo, his purpose of getting married at a young age was to have children and when that didn't happen sooner than expected, it became tough for them.

 

"I got married at 26. My wife was 24, and we married as virgins. he said 

 

Ultimately, the journey was a tough one. I am one person who earnestly desired children, and my purpose of getting married when I did was to have children and see my children and I grow together. I couldn’t imagine it would get to that point where I would have to wait for 25 years. During our first two months in the marriage, my wife got pregnant and unfortunately, due to inexperience we travelled to Ghana and she miscarried the baby. Thereafter, it just went up and down. It was not an easy journey to walk. My joy is that at the end of the day, when it seems like all hope was gone, God brought these triplets – two girls and one boy. he said

 

Deacon Nwankwo also stated that they had tried a lot of things as a couple to get pregnant, including IVF treatments;

 

"We sampled all godly opinions which came as advice in search of solutions. But the matter kept lingering from one point to the other. My wife was even operated upon in 2006 for fibroid. Thereafter, we also kept waiting from one point to another. So, it was not easy at all. We even did an IVF (in vitro fertilization) but it didn’t work for us. We spent so much, yet it didn’t come out successful. After some months, it just flushed out. We did whatever was godly as Christians. In all this, we had absolute faith in God and did not step out to try anything outside God. Many pastors and ministers also prophesied to us that God would answer us, urging us to be more patient. That was exactly what we did, but I must tell you that it was not easy at all. he said

 

One time, I remember a mentally-ill man met us around Jibowu Street, Lagos, some years back, and told my wife that she was not going to have a child but God would give her children at the right time. It was amazing and surprising.

 

Mrs Victoria recalled how her neighbours used to mock her during her trying times;

 

"Those things are inevitable. I remember in the place I used to live some years back, my neighbour gave birth to a baby boy, and in excitement, I walked out of my flat and wanted to carry the boy. The speed with which they zoomed into the room immediately I entered, I became cold. Did they think because I didn’t have children I would be a devourer of other people’s children? In organisations, when they want to talk about family, because we didn’t have children, they seemed not to pay attention to us, irrespective of age. she said

 

 

Victoria also stated that her IVF had initally failed, however she "didn't feel too bad."

 

 

Asked how she felt after finding out she was pregnant, Victoria said;

 

 

Mrs Nwankwo who said she brought her three babies out by herself during delivery, concluded that she would love to have more children.