Lady Reveals What She Did When She Had to Choose Between Her PhD And Love Life

Posted by Thandiubani on Mon 07th Feb, 2022 - tori.ng

The lady identified with the Twitter handle, Dr. Adeola Olubamiji had stated that one of her biggest challenges was meeting the right guy at the wrong time.

A Canada-based Nigerian woman has shared her love story on Twitter.

Dr. Adeola Olubamiji stated that one of her biggest challenges was meeting the right guy at the wrong time.

According to Olubamiji, she met a guy in Finland that was madly in love with her.

They were still together when she received a PhD admission in Canada.

However, she decided to move to Canada after the guy proposed.

She, however made it clear to him that she’d still be going to Canada for her PhD and had asked him to find a way Canada too.

However, things fell apart because of the distance. It seems she had lost a good man.

She later revealed that when it seems she had lost it all, some thing good happened.

Read below:

“One of the hardest decision I have had to make is to turn down a LOVE that came at the WRONG TIME. I met a guy back in Finland. We were both students by day and cleaners by night. But he was madly in love with me. You could tell him anything about me and he would still love me

Suddenly, I got a PhD admission and full funding in Canada! And it became clear that I was going to move to Canada and leave him behind. Guess what? He proposed! Chei! What was I supposed to do when I know he could k‘*II himself if ! said no. Well, I said yes.

But made it clear, I am going to Canada and going alone! If you want me, get yourself to Canada by school or any other method &.l am not staying back to marry and have kids while we would both be cleaners and be madly poor and madly in love.

left for Canada. With time difference and PhD student stress, the relationship became a burden. I am realistic, so I let this good man go! Told myself there will be other good men in the future. For now, let me face making myself a real, successful and good woman.”