Don’t Allow Anybody Use Forgiveness To Manipulate You — Actress Lota Chukwu

Lota Chukwu

Nigerian actress, Ugwu Lotachukwu, on Tuesday urged her fans not to let anyone use forgiveness to manipulate them.

According to Lota, people should learn from experience before granting a person access to their lives after they've been wronged.

She made the statement whilst sharing a short clip where a woman said “I actually do not hold grudges I establish boundaries based on behaviours to protect myself.”

Reacting to her statement, Lota in an Instagram story on Tuesday said;

“Finally, someone put it succinctly. Don’t let anyone use asking for forgiveness to manipulate you into granting the same access before an incident. It’s called learning from experience

“Forgiveness is the offendee’s compromise, respecting boundaries set as a result of offense, is the offender’s compromise”.