Why Men Shouldn’t Focus On Ladies’ Ex-Lovers And S*xual History —BBNaija Star, Modella

Esther Abimbola, a former Big Brother Naija housemate, who is also known as Modella, has given some advice to men.

She urged men to stop focusing on the s*xual history of their partners, as women don’t do that.

In an interview with Saturday Beats, she said, “Females don’t pay attention to guys’ body count. Most times, it is men that take it seriously. Most guys have lost count of the number of s*xual partners they have had. It is only few men who don’t like sleeping around that can keep track of their body count.

“I don’t think any guy should pay attention to any girl’s body count. If you like the girl, go for her. I am not saying a guy should date a slut or prostitute; though some guys do that because that is what works for them.”

Modella also stressed that these days, it could be challenging to have a non-s*xual intimate relationship.

She said, “Some girls are always meeting the wrong guys who end up breaking their hearts. This is the 21st century, and for most relationships one goes into, s*x is very important, except one chooses to be celibate.”

Asked if she would have been in a relationship with a fellow housemate, Bryan, if it were not a live show, she said, “Before the game, I had no intention of getting into a relationship. But, I also knew that most times when one falls in love, it is not planned; it just happens. In my situation, we were friends. We both liked each other; though obviously, he liked me more. But, I just was not in that space. I liked our friendship and I did not want us to stop talking just because he wanted us to take it (relationship) to the next level. BBN or not, if I was not going to date him, I would not date him.”

Modella also disagreed with people who feel that BBN is aimed at promoting nudity and x-rated contents.

She said, “I don’t agree because there is no time during the show that housemates are asked to go nude. Sometimes, even if one overexposes oneself, the camera would be taken off one.”