Nigerian Singer, Tems Reveals The Types Of Men She Can’t Date Or Marry (Video)

Temilade Openiyi, the Grammy-winning Nigerian singer, who is popularly known as Tems, has disclosed her major red flags in a potential partner.

In a recent interview with American outfit Complex, the Love Me Jeje crooner said she can’t date unfriendly or uncurious men.

According to her, the essence of relationship is lost if a partner isn’t friendly and curious about their spouse.

“My dating terms are someone who is not trying to be your friend is a red flag.

"Anybody that isn’t curious about you is also a red flag. Because what are we doing? Why are we here if you don’t want to know me?

“If he or she doesn’t want to know more about you, end the relationship,” she said.

Tems said she is a “lover girl” but trying to be careful due to past experiences.

She added that she is more focused on self-love currently.

Tems on her dating red flags ⛳

— "Someone that's not trying to be your friend, is a red flag. Anybody that isn't curious about you, and doesn't want to know more about you" pic.twitter.com/4iHImSo5CR

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