Official Effs Says Money and Race Cannot Guarantee Loyalty

(Singer Official Effs. Photo by Vanguard News)

Singer Official Effs has argued that white men do not automatically make women's lives easier just because they are wealthy or charming.

She said loyalty in relationships has nothing to do with race or money.

Effs said she dated mostly white men before getting married, including some very successful ones.

She recalled dating the son of a wealthy millionaire in England.

His family was open-minded, interested in African culture and welcoming to her.

His father praised the son for being grounded and motivated.

She became close to the family and got to know his mother well.

But the man was secretly cheating on her, she said.

He was good at hiding it and she would never have found out if another woman had not gotten upset about how close Effs had become to his family.

The other woman looked similar to Effs.

According to her, white men are not necessarily more faithful than Black men.

They may just be better at keeping their affairs hidden.

She said some Black men leave obvious signs that make cheating easier to discover, but white men are more careful and strategic.

Effs challenged the idea that a wealthy or charming white man will automatically stay loyal.

She joked that women should test this by dating men with typical European names in places like Ghana during the holiday season to see if money and charm really guarantee fidelity.

She concluded that finding a man who is both charming and truly loyal is rare, no matter his race or wealth.

Loyalty is what makes a relationship special, not the color of his skin or how much money he has.