Been Married For 12 years, I Have Never Cheated On My Wife - South African Man

A South African man identified as Bakhe Dlamini has disclosed that he has been married for 12 years and never cheated on his spouse.

The marriage therapist stated this in a Facebook post on Monday, November 14, 2022.

He said that when one cheats, the consequences are dire because it takes a lot to restore trust.

"Been married 12 years, have never cheated on my wife. I pray it stays that way, because I know the effects of cheating. On a daily basis I attend to couples that have been impacted adversely by cheating," he wrote.

"The consequences are dire. It takes a lot to build or restore trust after cheating. To those who've been affected by cheating, if you both committed to your marriage, the cheating party is truly remorseful and has changed, I want you to know that there's hope for you. Healing may take place daily, you may still have unhealed wounds. A day at a time, things will get better."